Teddi Mellencamp Arroyaveis going without a birth plan as she prepares to have her third child.
The soon-to-be mother of three and daughter of famed rockerJohn Mellencampalso says she’s “in such a different place” with her current pregnancy.
“With Slate, I got pregnant via [intrauterine] insemination and with Cruz, it was through [in vitro fertilization], and it was multiple failed rounds of IVF. With both kids, Iwas on and off bedrest,” shares Mellencamp Arroyave, 38. “There was a lot of stress.”
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Teddi Mellencamp Arroyave’s daughter’s nursery.Claire Leahy

In 2018, Mellencamp Arroyave revealed via social media that she likely would not have another child after the first two, making this pregnancy,which she conceived naturally, quite a surprise.
“This pregnancy, I didn’t even know I was pregnant till I was nine weeks pregnant. I’ve been able to be active the entire pregnancy,” she says. “It’s just been such a different experience.”
“You can go on and you fill out like a little style quiz,” she said. “So I submitted the pictures, I took the quiz and then they gave me two different options.”

Nursery for Teddi Mellencamp Arroyave’s daughter.Claire Leahy

She said that while designing any home space can be stressful, Modsy changed her approach to it.
“It made it very simple for me,” Mellencamp Arroyave said of the design service. “I like things to look nice, but I don’t have a design eye, and I think that having this made it so simple but also feel unique.”
Teddi Mellencamp Arroyave.Claire Leahy

Teddi Mellencamp Arroyave’s playroom.Claire Leahy

She has learned that she doesn’t need “every single little thing” to be in the nursery, though. More important than gadgets, she tells PEOPLE, is feeling comfortable in the space.
“I can’t wait to bring her in there and for her to start her little life,” she shares.
source: people.com